Worrying about how other people want you to show up or act is a distraction from the more relevant question…Do you want to show up in that way?
If you do, and your not, then that is your work…if you don’t, then your work is being okay with them being disappointed or mad or whatever emotion they choose to feel that you aren’t willing to be that for them
We don’t have to, nor should we, people please. This only causes resentment for them and shame for you…Stop!!
As a Life Coach, I am trained to help you look at those thoughts and beliefs that are keeping you in this “people pleasing” cycle