Which Discomfort Do You Live In?

The discomfort of doing things you really don’t want to; for fear of making people unhappy or wanting people to like you

The discomfort of having the ability to say no, and have other people be unhappy with your decision

They both cause the same feeling in our body

So, does it really matter which option we choose?

I would answer with an emphatic Yes!

When we do things out of fear or pleasing others it causes an extra layer of negative emotions with Resentment, which will build over time

Of course, It’s totally fine to do things you don’t want to sometimes

Or maybe we even “want to”, but there is a small part that doesn’t want too

As long as we consciously know we are doing it at our own discomfort

That additional layer of resentment won’t show up

It becomes a problem when this is our everyday response

It’s exhausting and frustrating when we live in the discomfort of pleasing others

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