They aren’t going to see the changesÂ
The changes won’t be good enough for themÂ
And that’s okayÂ
The changes aren’t for themÂ
The changes are for youÂ
I know that makes you frustratedÂ
That’s why you are still unhappyÂ
We do this so often in relationships we are struggling withÂ
We know we have our part to play in the conflictÂ
So we determine to make a changeÂ
But, we are making that change with the secret agenda that it will cause the other person to change also or that they will notice the changes you are making and acknowledge them with gratitudeÂ
Until you make the changes for your benefit and not someone else’s, you will stay stuck in anger and frustrationÂ
When we make changes for us:Â
we let go of the expectation of the other person and allow them to just be them; annoying habits and allÂ
we don’t need their validation because we are too busy congratulating ourselves on how we handled the situationÂ
Make the changes for you and watch how quickly you feel betterÂ
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