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How Do You Want to Show Up?

We Canโ€™t Show Up as the Mom or Spouse We Want To Be, When We Ignore Our Own Needs!!!


Maybe in the short-term itโ€™s possible, but it wonโ€™t last long ๐Ÿ˜’


I didnโ€™t mind at first putting my needs last, I loved each of my children and wanted to make them happy ๐Ÿฅฐ


I didnโ€™t mind at first that my husband worked and then came home and relaxed the rest of the evening because I had been working from home all day and was able to get the things needed done โœ…


But then, it started to wear on me ๐Ÿ˜’

๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿป No sleep

๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿป Constantly giving

๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿป All the responsibility: kids, house, work, cooking, shopping, and and and โ€ฆ


I was done! I had had it!! ๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ก


It was time for my spouse to be a partner and my kids to listen and obey, dang it!


But guess whatโ€ฆI was wrong ๐Ÿค”๐Ÿค”๐Ÿค”


My husband didnโ€™t need to be any different then he was for me to feel supported and loved and for me to love him ๐Ÿคฏ๐Ÿคฏ๐Ÿคฏ


My kids didnโ€™t need to listen and obey and follow my every command for me to feel respected ๐Ÿคฏ๐Ÿคฏ๐Ÿคฏ


I needed to give all of those things to myself ๐Ÿฅฐ


When I loved and supported and respected myself by putting my needs first

๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿป I was able to stop projecting my feelings onto my family

๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿป I was able to stop blaming and take responsibility

๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿป I was able to stop hiding from my life and live into it

๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿป I was able to become Proactive rather than Reactive

๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿป I stopped being resentful and became grateful


I was wrong in Thinking everyone else had to change for me to be happy ๐Ÿ™ƒ


I needed to become aware of what my Thinking was creating in my life for me to want to be ready to change the result I was creating ๐Ÿ˜Œ


As a Life Coach, I am trained to look for those tricky thoughts and help you separate the facts from your story, so we can take a look at what is happening for you ๐Ÿ˜Š


You can create whatever life you want, and I would be honored to create it with you ๐Ÿ˜˜

Click on the link in my bio and request your Free Consult ๐Ÿ˜ƒ


Connect with me:

https://www.mindbodyspiritlifecoach.net

@mind_body_spirit_life_coach

aprobst2013@gmail.com

808-636-8287


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