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How Do You Want to Show Up?

We Can’t Show Up as the Mom or Spouse We Want To Be, When We Ignore Our Own Needs!!!

Maybe in the short-term it’s possible, but it won’t last long 😒

I didn’t mind at first putting my needs last, I loved each of my children and wanted to make them happy 🥰

I didn’t mind at first that my husband worked and then came home and relaxed the rest of the evening because I had been working from home all day and was able to get the things needed done ✅

But then, it started to wear on me 😒

👉🏻 No sleep

👉🏻 Constantly giving

👉🏻 All the responsibility: kids, house, work, cooking, shopping, and and and …

I was done! I had had it!! 😡😡😡

It was time for my spouse to be a partner and my kids to listen and obey, dang it!

But guess what…I was wrong 🤔🤔🤔

My husband didn’t need to be any different then he was for me to feel supported and loved and for me to love him 🤯🤯🤯

My kids didn’t need to listen and obey and follow my every command for me to feel respected 🤯🤯🤯

I needed to give all of those things to myself 🥰

When I loved and supported and respected myself by putting my needs first

👉🏻 I was able to stop projecting my feelings onto my family

👉🏻 I was able to stop blaming and take responsibility

👉🏻 I was able to stop hiding from my life and live into it

👉🏻 I was able to become Proactive rather than Reactive

👉🏻 I stopped being resentful and became grateful

I was wrong in Thinking everyone else had to change for me to be happy 🙃

I needed to become aware of what my Thinking was creating in my life for me to want to be ready to change the result I was creating 😌

As a Life Coach, I am trained to look for those tricky thoughts and help you separate the facts from your story, so we can take a look at what is happening for you 😊

You can create whatever life you want, and I would be honored to create it with you 😘

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