How Do You Want to Show Up?
We Canโt Show Up as the Mom or Spouse We Want To Be, When We Ignore Our Own Needs!!!
Maybe in the short-term itโs possible, but it wonโt last long ๐
I didnโt mind at first putting my needs last, I loved each of my children and wanted to make them happy ๐ฅฐ
I didnโt mind at first that my husband worked and then came home and relaxed the rest of the evening because I had been working from home all day and was able to get the things needed done โ
But then, it started to wear on me ๐
๐๐ป No sleep
๐๐ป Constantly giving
๐๐ป All the responsibility: kids, house, work, cooking, shopping, and and and โฆ
I was done! I had had it!! ๐ก๐ก๐ก
It was time for my spouse to be a partner and my kids to listen and obey, dang it!
But guess whatโฆI was wrong ๐ค๐ค๐ค
My husband didnโt need to be any different then he was for me to feel supported and loved and for me to love him ๐คฏ๐คฏ๐คฏ
My kids didnโt need to listen and obey and follow my every command for me to feel respected ๐คฏ๐คฏ๐คฏ
I needed to give all of those things to myself ๐ฅฐ
When I loved and supported and respected myself by putting my needs first
๐๐ป I was able to stop projecting my feelings onto my family
๐๐ป I was able to stop blaming and take responsibility
๐๐ป I was able to stop hiding from my life and live into it
๐๐ป I was able to become Proactive rather than Reactive
๐๐ป I stopped being resentful and became grateful
I was wrong in Thinking everyone else had to change for me to be happy ๐
I needed to become aware of what my Thinking was creating in my life for me to want to be ready to change the result I was creating ๐
As a Life Coach, I am trained to look for those tricky thoughts and help you separate the facts from your story, so we can take a look at what is happening for you ๐
You can create whatever life you want, and I would be honored to create it with you ๐
Click on the link in my bio and request your Free Consult ๐
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